I know it is important to recognize the woman who brought me into the world as she deserves all the praise. And to all mothers who sacrifice daily for their children. But it is a really hard day for those of us who want nothing more in this world than to be a mother and we fail at every turn. It is a struggle not to be bitter and sad.

As a therapist, I’m trying to do what I would advise my clients and challenge these thoughts with gratitude. It doesn’t take away all the pain but it does bring to light the amazing aspects of my life that others may covet.

So as I snuggle my fur baby tonight, I send well wishes to all the moms in the world. I pray that someday I too will get to experience the joy and love of having a child, whether created in my womb or that of another. One can only dream.